i kicked my girlfriend out?
Question by Jen: i kicked my girlfriend out?
did i do the right thing?
I hadn’t seen her in over a week and during that time i’ve been completely f’d up. When she came back the first thing she wanted was sex and i just told her to leave. It’s so bad but i was afraid that because she does have an addiction to sex that maybe she had caught something while she was out there! And i didn’t want to do anything with her because of this fear, so i just kicked her out.
Now i’m afraid that i’ll never see her again and that she might do something to herself. I feel so incapable but whenever she’s in my life i feel bound to sex. I feel guilty now though because she just looked like any normal addict would and because i kicked her out when she needed my help – she is beautiful but she has completely ruined herself. I’ve tried ringing her on her phone and it just goes straight to answering machine
aguade – i feel guilty as it is. i just couldn’t look at her in that state and why should i be blamed if she fails to have a shred of dignity
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You did right; you don’t want to be an enabler. Let her find help for her addiction if she wants it.
I don’t think you did the right thing, but I understand why you did what you did. It’s hard to see the ones we love go down a self-destructive path. I hate to say it, but if she hadn’t already done something with somebody and caught something before you saw her, she probably will now that you’ve kicked her out. I guess you’ll just have to keep trying and wait it out. Good luck! I hope this helped!
go find her and tell her whats on your mind, if you want to work things out you need to have communication, if you dont wanna work things out, you can either 1)forget about her completely and move on w/your life, or 2)go find her and just tell her that its over but you want to make sure she’s ok and would like to be friends (the part about wanting to be friends is optional). good luck, hope this helped.
It may feel like you did the wrong thing, but I don’t think so. Have you ever tried getting her help? You can only do so much though, people have to want to help themselves. My x-girlfriend had a drug problem…among other things, and I did my best, but she was just dragging us both down. If someone is putting your health at risk, stay away from them. I tried helping her, but it never worked out (she would always go back to doing bad things). So I finally said enough. And am happy to be away from the drama.
I was once in exactly the same boat as you, with a girl also. I had to let her go. Sometimes people change and there’s nothing that you can do to prevent this change from occuring.
I found Islam and decided to completely renounce my bisexual lifestyle (although i have nothing against gay people -this was a choice that i had to make for myself) and she moved to the states for college.
Be strong and let her go in relation to her being your girlfriend, however, as a friend go out and help her and let her know that you are there for her in her time of need. People with addictions do not realise that they’re fast sinking into a bog until it is too late.
There’s plenty other girls out there for you. Be safe and God bless
Peace
xx